Qrt.S wrote:Hey, hey, gentlemen please calm down, this a debate, in not a duel. I’ve been away for a few hours and therefore I’ve been silent,
Soon you will notice something. “The more you learn the less you realize you know. It’s a cruel world we are living in. When I was 20 years, I knew everything worth to know at least I thought so. Today I know much more, but I also know how little I actually know.
Peace!

Wow... This must be the "twilight zone"... Just when I'm cooling down, someone comes back and turns the heat back on...
I think if you go up to the beginning of the thread and read all the posts in succession, you will find that I have been calm, cool, and collected at all times, except toward the end when I felt like I was beginning to get belittled, pushed around, and offended by another member.
I have also been exceedingly polite throughout - saying "thank you" and "please" over and over again and showing gratitude for peoples' time and efforts, when warranted...
I never said the piece was real. I called it "complicated" and "beautiful" and said I thought it was high quality... I even said "I'm not arguing that this is original - I have no idea - it may, or it may not be...."
And where exactly do you think I was "arguing" and that I "won't listen"?
Was it because I was asking "why"? As in, "why do you think it's fake?"
Or said in other ways - why exactly? Why precisely? Tell me because I want to know...
Since when has asking "why" become a reason for belittling someone else? Isn't this forum for asking "why" and for getting educated? To become smarter about the field... Another way to get knowledge, not just from owning books or visiting a museum...
Okay - in response, I got a little bit of help, true, but mixed in with what at times sounded to me like messages that are not in-line with the aims of a forum built for education (and I'm paraphrasing here): "it's fake, believe me because I know" or "why ask experts if you know everything" or "yu da man and expert" or "go read books and learn to be like me."
Anyone who thinks those are good responses needs an attitude adjustment...
finally, un-like how you describe it, I didn't come to the forum to get an opinion on whether this object is genuine or fake. Go read my original post again - in my original post I was saying I had difficulty figuring out the marks and needed help...
No one has all the perfect knowledge, not even you guys who hold yourselves out as "experts." And there is nothing wrong in asking: "why" or "explain why you feel that way." People who don't feel like responding, just shouldn't respond - they should check out of the forum or participate only in posts that interest them.
The purpose of the forum is to share knowledge. To do it in a responsible and helpful a way as possible. And to do it all in a nice way that doesn't offend anyone. The purpose is to encourage others to collect silver, to learn about it, to appreciate it. Not to judge, not to belittle, not to be condescending - none of those things help the field of collecting, and no one has the right to be that way, not even if they are a Faberge expert or the curator of the Hermitage...
Having said all that, I'll end with saying thank you for the information you did provide in your Numbers 1, 2, and 3. As for the photo - what you are pointing to are dents and damage to the material. Thanks again.
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